Seams present in various areas and aspects of life as we know it. From the seams of family ties, to friendship, seams of personal segmentation of our lives, seams of sanity and various other seams that we may pick… but one thing to note is what kinds of seams you pick…Seams are around to tie in things together not only for physical items like jeans and furniture but also in each and every part of our lives. Be it our interaction with others, and various other aspects.
Pick the wrong seam and things will come loose…it may not seem like much at first just a slight flare but if you tug at it long enough things will fall apart…And I guess many of us unknowingly pick on these seams for example the seams that hold us together…we always play on the idea that we do not need people around, we do not need help we are strong enough and capable enough to handle situations or problems but it is exactly these people and support that are the seams to hold us together and we by turning down these acts of charity or so to say is an act of picking of these threads…or maybe by pushing away our freedom and relaxation we are also picking on other seams that hold our lives together…Maybe by arguing and not giving in to siblings, lovers, friends, colleagues we are picking the seams of these relationships or maybe by just not helping out once may add to the picking of the seams of that friendship…maybe insisting things may also be picking on those strings…
I guess what I am trying to say is that we should not make the wrong decisions, be it in personal lives or in relationships there will be things that will bug us but we must learn to put ourselves aside and put others first…and we should also learn to know how to rely on others and not over load ourselves with too much…also i think a release of emotions is also a good thing but we must know how to release it in the right way there are times where spur of the moment emotions causes us to do weird and irrational things that we may regret later on so keep a clear mind when u feel like u are going to do something that if in the right state of mind you will regret…so things that will distract you from doing unsound things and yet help to release the emotions in you…
